I’m back! It’s been months and months since my last blog post. So, before February ends, I want to have an entry this month. With that being said, since February is a love month, I decided to write something related to it.

So here it goes.

“Love isn’t patient and kind and humble. Love is messy. And horrible and selfish and bold. It’s not finding your perfect half. It’s trying, reaching and failing. Love is willing to ruin your good painting for the chance at a great one.”

That quote is a line from the movie “The Half of It.” Do you agree with that love quote? Do you agree that love is messy? That it is horrible and bold? I totally agree with how Ellie Chu defines love in that movie.

Love is very complex. We all have our definition of love. But I would agree that it is messy. Love is not always rainbows and butterflies. Sometimes love is hurricanes and thorns. Love is accepting each other’s chaos and embracing it fully. Love is not always having someone to be happy with but it is also having someone to struggle with. It is having that person who can accept and embrace the total mess that you are.

Love is bold. It is, love is being bold. Being bold is being brave. Being brave is taking risks, taking that chance to love and be loved. Having the courage to trust the process and trust the person that he/she will never break your heart.

As for me, love is acceptance. Love is accepting each other’s flaws, imperfections, and shortcomings. No matter how chaotic that person is, you will choose him/her over any circumstances.

Life is a choice and so is love. We just want to be accepted and loved for who we are and for what we are. We are all craving someone who will never give up on us, who will see our worth and most of all who will choose us every day.

For you who are reading this, I hope you already found the love who sees you as a beautiful mess, and brave enough to withstand the world with you. May we all find the love that we deserve. Know that you are worthy. You deserved to be celebrated, to be accepted, and to be loved.

Happy love month, everyone! ❤️